You’re lazy!

Okay, you’re not all lazy, yet from where I sit and what we see through the work we do, many men have grown lazy and apathetic! We live in a culture where it’s easy to fall into laziness. Everything you want or need is at your fingertips, and we have forgotten how to go to battle and fight for the very gift (your spouse) and freedoms we have been given. Most men don’t want to be bothered to step out from behind the remote or the image they are hiding behind to step up to the frontline with the courage to fight for their wives and families. This is not a complicated post or one that contains five points to not being lazy.

The solution is simple- stand up now! Look at what has brought you and your marriage to where it’s at, own it, and begin to make the necessary changes. Do what you have not been doing; if you’re unsure, grab a guy you admire and ask him to lock arms with you and help you fight. You can shift the trajectory of your life and marriage by your daily decisions. You, and only you, are responsible for where your marriage is. And you have control over how you will respond, so tomorrow is not today!